mental health

getting rid of those january blues

January 12, 2018


january has to be possibly the worst month of the year, with its freezing temperatures, lack of sunshine, never-ending rain (if you're living in Britain.) i myself have been suffering as of late with my mental health, so this weather surely does not help. however, recently we were blessed with a most gorgeous day. a day visited by the sun and a subtle sea breeze.



we decided to take a spin out to one of my favourite towns along the coastline in Kent, Whitstable. it's a quaint little town, full of independent, quirky shops and good seafood. famous for its oysters, the harbours have market stalls suitable for all ages. then in front of the pebble beach there are many beach huts... seaside picturesque.




after spending a great amount of time sitting on the pier, looking out beyond the sea, we went for cod and chips in the popular seaside pub, Old Neptune. inside we were welcomed by many dogs and their owners, so it pretty much was heaven.






it felt great to get the cobwebs blown away and to feel all refreshed, with the help of the seaweed scent and clean air. but there are ways to bring a little sunshine into your life. for me it's colour and light. windows open wide, a lit candle and a vase of vibrant flowers.


much love,

kayla

mental health

peace of mind

May 26, 2017

escaping is not always a bad thing

unfortunately in this day and age, we have forgotten the benefits of taking walks among nature.
it is such a highly effective way to calm your mind and to help you to think.

we are all so used to the hustle and bustle of everyday life that we forget that it's important to take the time to think. we run through lists of what errands we must carry out, what personal achievements we long to succeed in, what hopes & dreams we one day wish will come true. planning ahead in the hope of making it just a little easier on ourselves in the future.

it's natural for us to worry. some of us worse than others. it is after all one of my adverse flaws to overthink things and worry for the future. it is only until recently where i've learnt to let things go and attempt to live in the present.

a simple skill such as mindfulness meditation can help to overcome or help to comply with stress. easing the mind through breathing, distracting the mind with something more so happy.

i always feel cheerful with reading in the park, it puts my mind at rest with a pleasant distraction or even merely listening to music while gazing up at the soaring birds in the high sky.

i spent my evening yesterday lying out in the park in the blazing sunshine, listening to 'first aid kit' while just feeling content with watching the birds and planes, taking deep breaths, feeling less claustrophobic to the wide, open sky, as well as making a list of things that i am fortunate to have...

- friends that are there for me
-  a family that healthy
- my own bedroom to sleep in
- a boyfriend that loves me even when i'm at my worst
- even naturally the air in my lungs, my two functional legs to walk with, my senses to explore what's around me... knowing that not everyone in the world is lucky enough in having their health makes me feel grateful with the sound body and mind that i do possess.

be strong to allow only for the positive thoughts to enter the sub-conscious mind, that way it will help you to gain peace of mind.

much love,

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